I never wear my hair down?

Okay, so for the last 5(maby 4?) years i have worn my hair up. And theres a pretty traumatic story behind it all.. when i was 10 i decided to get my hair cut to my shoulders, and the hair dresser cut it into a mushroom cut (at my ears!!) and since then ive grown it out, and only wear it up. So, im comfortable with it down when im by myself and stuff.. but with people im sooo self concious about it(and i don't know why, because all my friends and people that know me say it looks better down).. i know it looks better, but i can't seem to do it.. in the past 2 years ive worn it down to dances and stuff, but i could only handle at most 30 minutes.. Also, one of the times i decided to wear it down it completely frizzed up, and there was nothing i could do... i just got it cut to past the shoulders with alot of layers and i %26lt;3 it.. but i cant bring myself to wear it down!! What is something i can say to myself to have confidence when its down? and what should i do about this problem?

I never wear my hair down?

Dude, I'm like you too. But, it's all about habit. Use a headband so it's out of your face and try it for 21 one days. (that's how long it takes to create a habit). You'll be wearing it down in no time. Plus, less breakage from rubberbands-your hair will be healthier. Cheers!

I never wear my hair down?

omg i haven't worn my hair down in lk 6 years but this year i wor it down to a school dance but i ended up putting it back up i always wear it down after i take a shower and when i straighten it but i lk can never wear it donw in public.... Report It

I never wear my hair down?

well if you know that people think it looks better down then maybe you should trust them. You even said your self you think it looks better down so just give it a chance. If you start to do it a little more then you'll get the hang of it and it wont be so hard to do....Good luck hun:)

I never wear my hair down?

I know it's easy for people to say oh just put it down and you'll feel fine, and i kind of have a slight problem like yours. I hardly ever wear my hair down because i'm scared that it will get really frizzy. I've gradually started to gain the confidence. I started wearing my hair down when i just go to the local shop. I met my friend there and she said that i look really good. And that really boosted my confidence. I think the the way to do it is to make sure you feel pretty inside and out. And don't rush anything take it step by step. Hope this helps you and know you know that your not alone.

I never wear my hair down?

You just need to get used to it, habits are hard to break. Start out wearing it down in the morning and leave your hairbands at home. make an effort to style your hair in the morning and feel confident about it when you walk out of the house. PLUS studies show men find women who wear their hair down more attractive than women who do not.