Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Have you ever had a horrible hair dresser mess up your hair by shredding it?

I had my hair cut over a year ago. The stylist did this thing to my hair where she cut into my hair and shredded it, it looks stringy and frayed. I have layers and my hair is long,I don't want to cut my hair short. Should I just start having my hair trimmed? I already know one trim will not get all the ugly part off .What would you do? Please help.



Thanks in advance.



Have you ever had a horrible hair dresser mess up your hair by shredding it?

I would try getting it trimmed once a month. It will eventually grow out. Also, start going to a male hair dresser. I've been going to the same guy for over 10 years now. He told me if you're a woman, to always go to a male hair dresser, he will always make sure you look your best, a woman hair dresser will make sure she still looks better than you.



Have you ever had a horrible hair dresser mess up your hair by shredding it?

trim it....but if your not doing it....tell the hairdresser EXACTLY how you want it...my hairdresser once cut too much off....btw there is no way to cut your hair wrong

My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

right before Christmas. I've been going to her for about 15 years. I sent her a card, and did as the obituary in the paper said to do, I signed our condolences in the online guestbook for her husband. I'm not good with this sort of thing, and didn't really know what to say. I also didn't want to impose by calling her, or stopping by. Did I do the right thing? Also, I'm needing my hair cut really bad. Would it be cold to call the salon to see if she's there? If not, how do I go into asking her to cut my hair. This may seem stupid, but I'm at a loss here, and I thank you for any advice you can give.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

Sounds like you did everything right. How did you make appointments to see her in the past? Do the same thing...or just call the salon and make an appointment with her through them...that's how you initially started seeing her...



Yes, she's going through a hard time, but as a friend %26amp; client, if she is working, I'm sure she doesn't want to lose your business.



If she's not available this time, go somewhere else, and in a month or two when she's back, continue seeing her again.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

Well, she most likely did have to go back to work. There's nothing wrong with calling the salon and asking whether she's back.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

Well find some one else to do it,or ask her if she would do it?



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

just get it cut by someone else- for all you know she;s porbably greeiving his death so- you're gonna have to go with someone else or you'll seem like yoou're being selfish.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

sounds like you did the right things. Call the saloon and check her status. I 'm sure that they'll be able to advise you better than anyone online.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

You should call and make an appointment, the more normal things are for her now the better she will be.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

First off, Dont worry about it



you could have called, but you didnt have too



next, it isnt fair for her to lose her husband and a customer



you should keep going there, and just let the past be past



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

If she's still doing hair, just go and get your hair done. Just don't bring it up to her b/c she might be still bottling up feeling and you don't want her to start crying and not finish your hair... May-be doing hair is her therapy right now...I think you should call to see if she's still working.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

there is other hair dresser in the world so just call and ask



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

just call the salon and make an appt, ask if your friend is available and see what they say.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

You should absolutely call the salon. Surely she needs the money now more than ever. Plus, you treating her as a friend will make her feel human again. Tell her how you feel, and if she wants to talk about it, she will. Otherwise, she might appreciate taking her mind off of it.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

My sister also lost her husband last year. A person does need time to mourn their loss.



You might have to use another stylist. Otherwise, call and just ask to speak with her. If she is there they will give her the phone or they will tell you she hasn't come back to work.



If she does answer just tell her that you would like to schedule an appointment with her.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

You should call and get an appointment with her, and when you get there and she starts doing your hair just talk to her and ask how she is doing. My mom died when I was in the 11th grade and I was afraid that people would feel bad for me and they wouldn't talk to me, but when I did get to school people walked up to me and asked how I was and it made me feel better that someone was actually thinking about me.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

you sent her a card, which shows that you took the time and did a caring gesture. I'm sure she appreciated it. Just give her a call and see if she's working. I don't see what you could've possibly done wrong.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

you should really consider having your hair cut with another hairdresser! I understand that you have been seeing her for fifteen years, but give the woman a break her husband died~ if anything I would call her to see how she is doing (obviously not great) but you get the point! by calling her you should be able to find out wether she is back to working or not! Good luck! whatever you do do not call her and ask her for a haircut! plus she might even offer it if you call her to check up on her!



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

call her at her house to say hi and check how she is doing, dont mention anything about your hair, then call the salon to make an appointment with her for your hair...



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

I would recommend calling for an appointment and acting as normal. death is something very hard to deal with and we all deal with it differently, but it is very important for "normalcy" life goes on.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

I would call the shop and see if she's working and make an appointment. If she's working, when you go and see her, be very friendly. Ask how she's doing and tell her how sorry you were for her loss. If she feels like talking she will open up. The best way you can help is listen and ask questions. If she doesn't open up, change the subject to a pre-thought of topic. If you live in a small town, something in the town that's going on. Or a topic everyone loves to jump on, the presidential candidates. What ever you do, just visit with her. Talking will help her, even if it's nonsense talk.



Experience, lost a husband too. It helps to talk when the moment and the person is right. It helps to just visit when its not.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

What I would do is first call her and tell her about how bad you feel about what happend. You could go take her out to lunch with her to make her feel a lot better. While you are talking to her about stuff joke around about how..... your hair looks horrible then ask her if she's up to cutting your hair.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

If the 2 of you have become friends then its important to call on her at home and talk with her or just listen to her. She may be lonely as people tend to feel awkward where a death is co ncerned, as in not quite knowing what to say so they put off visiting . Saying nothing, a hug can do it just as well , that will work.also You may discuss the work issue at the same time, it would give a topic to start a conversation and see what happens.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

Call the salon and make the appointment with her. You did the right thing. You didn't say if you and this person were good friends, in which case a call would have been nice but if she was just cutting your hair for a long time, you did right sending the condolences the way you did.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

You let her know you had her in your thoughts %26amp; that was sweet of you. Trust me, you wouldn't be imposing if you gave her a call %26amp; asked her if she's up to having some company. If she says yes, then maybe you could stop at the bakery on your way to her house %26amp; pick up some baked goods to take to her. If she's not up to company, then tell her maybe another time. If you go to her home, do not ask her about cutting your hair or she may think that's the only reason you stopped by. I'm sure in visiting with her or chatting on the phone, she'll let you know when she's going back to work. Forget about your hair for the moment %26amp; be there for your hairdresser. She'll be so grateful.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

Wow, that is tough. Having lost a husband unexpectedly, it is never an imposition to inquire on how someone is doing. Do not be surprised if she is taking some extra time off. At the same time do not be surprised if she is back to work.... she may need something to fill the time. Go ahead and call the salon, ask how she is doing. If she is back to work go on and schedule an appointment, it is likely to do her good to have some of her old faith fulls there. If she is not back just let her know you are thinking of her and that you will temporarily let someone else take care of your hair.



You did the right thing by offering your condolences.



You might also see if there is any 'donation' as she may need assistance at this time.



When you get to see her again do not be afraid to just listen to her.



Under no circumstances should you say anything like "He's in a better place." or You're young you'll find someone else... Believe me people can and do say these stupid things.



Search your heart, be kind, and don't worry about being an imposition, people in this position need to know they are thought of.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

you should call the salon and ask if shes able to cut her hair when shes cutting your hair casually get into the conversation about her husband and ask if shes ok trust my my dad died when i was in 3rd grade and i didnt want people to not talk to me and im sure she wont want people to not talk to her either cuz she will feel alienated just tell her that you care about her and you want to help



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

Just contact her and give her your condolence and let her know that if she's ready. You would like to have her cut your hair.



My hair dresser's husband died in a car accident...?

That is unfortunate, but a bit egocentric that you are asking a question like this.... it is sad that someone died, really, but I don't know him and I can't pat you on the back for it so cry yourself to sleep.



Call her no biggy

Going to the hair dresser today. Need some help.?

Hi. I'm going to the hairdresser today just to get fly away strands of hair cut and split ends cut and I also want my hair layered a bit but I want barely any length or heaviness off my hair. How would I ask the hairdresser to do this? Usually when I ask they always cut it too short or thin it out too much.



Going to the hair dresser today. Need some help.?

Explain it to her/him just like you did here!



Going to the hair dresser today. Need some help.?

you may just want to hire a lawn service for that mess on your head



Going to the hair dresser today. Need some help.?

Find a picture of the hairstyle you'd like them to do for you.

Noo the hair dresser wrecked my hair!!!?

yes I know it will grow back but yesterday i had my hair cut and she said that she would keep my fringe the same length but just tidy it up abut....but she cut my side fringe too short and its wrecked so I cant wear my fringe down when the rest of my hair is up.



What can I do..Like hair style!!!



Picture would be helpful but whatever!!



Thanks xxx



Noo the hair dresser wrecked my hair!!!?

pull Ur fringe back!!!!!!!! lol



Noo the hair dresser wrecked my hair!!!?

Give it a couple weeks and do what you can to make it through the time.



Noo the hair dresser wrecked my hair!!!?

I am so sorry that happen! I can't stand a hair dresser that doesn't know what there doing! My hair is just grow back from getting it cut!

Did hair dresser over charge me?

Today I got a perm from a place in a mall. Their sign said 'perms $65 and up.' I asked how much a perm for me would cost, and was told probably $65 as my hair isn't too long, about mid collar length.



The stylist gives me the perm, then asks if I want any cut off. I tell her yes, and tell her how much to take off.



Afterwards I go up to the counter to pay, and am shocked when I'm told the charge is $95!!! I ask why, if the sign says perms are $65, I'm being charged $95, and am told 'the perm was $65, the haircut was $30.



I've gotten perms about twice a year for the past 15 or so years, and every time they cut some off, and never ever have I been charged extra for a hair cut. Have a just been fortunate all these years?



My money's kinda tight right now, and I was happy to give myself a treat via the perm. But I thought I'd only be paying $65 + $15 for tip, but instead I paid the $95 and gave a $10 tip. I was kinda upset when I left.



What's been your experience? Thanks



Did hair dresser over charge me?

Some salons do this - perm = 1 service %26amp; the hair cut = a 2nd service. I've had a similar experience %26amp; just never returned to that salon.



The best way to avoid such situations is to ask if there is any extra charge. I think that most people are shy about asking or assume that if the stylist offered then it's included. I also wonder if stylists are under pressure to increase their revenue %26amp; take advantage of this.



BTW, you may want to consider going to training nights or modelling nights at upscale salons. Services are offered to clients at a nominal fee or for free. Such events allow junior stylists hone their skills under the supervision of senior staff or allow them to demonstrate new techniques.



Did hair dresser over charge me?

sounds right to me. 65 is the perm price- it obviously did not include the cut. you need a suga daddy



Did hair dresser over charge me?

Wow...any salon I've worked in included the haircut with the perm.



She should have stated the whole price before the service. Most professionals would. It's sneaky and wrong, seeing as you asked the price of the perm. She should have told you the price, and then added that a cut would be extra.



Next time make sure to ask if a cut is included in the price.



Did hair dresser over charge me?

I am an ex hairdresser. Yes i think you were over charged. In my past experience the cut was included in the perm charge. The only thing that would let the salon that over charged you off, would be if they had a separate price for the cut under the perm price. I always get them to right down my quotes and explain anything that may be extra. Sorry about your bad luck, just think, Karma! It will come back to them big time!



Did hair dresser over charge me?

I always thauth that the air cut was included with the perm. In my knowledge it would be $65.00 unless otherwise said on the wall somewhere air cut extra..Secondly if you say that your money is tight I would not give a $10.00 tips. Do you know of First Choice Haircutters, you dont need appointment for hair cut and it is only $10.00 but you do need an appointment for perms....I dont go to salon it is too expensive and you get the same service with pros at First Choice,,it is very popular here in Canada.

How do i grown my hair quciker?

hey, i had long hair which was great, although it got quite long so i got a hair cut. To my shock, the hair dresser cut most of it off, so now i have 1cm of hair when i want a good few inches. any ideas to speed up the growing process? Please help!!!



How do i grown my hair quciker?

Get bitten by a werewolf and wait until the full moon. the side effect is you'll get a taste for human flesh though



How do i grown my hair quciker?

shave it



How do i grown my hair quciker?

Cover it with butter and sit out in the sun. LOL



How do i grown my hair quciker?

massage your scalp every night. It stimulates the blood %26amp; promotes hair growth.



How do i grown my hair quciker?

get hair extensions.



no jk



the more often you cut ur hair the shorter it takes to grow



How do i grown my hair quciker?

Well definately DO NOT rub varnish into it as someone advised me once.



How do i grown my hair quciker?

You can try Garnier Fructis length and strength shampoo and conditioner.



How do i grown my hair quciker?

There are these hair protein pills that you cant get at drugstores- and it strengthens your hair and helps it grow



How do i grown my hair quciker?

vitamins...they make special ones to enhance hair growth,local pharmacy...being as your a guy it doesn't matter if you grow a little extra hair on your bod...side effect.



How do i grown my hair quciker?

Once it gets beyond a certain length then its own weight makes it grow faster.



How do i grown my hair quciker?

i don't really think that there's any other way to mack your hair grow faster unless your hare grows fast naturaly, u might see some hair producks in the store that say that i makes your hair grow faster, u can also try a store that sells hair producks and ask them about that.



How do i grown my hair quciker?

Growing power/spray u can get online or get get a hair person who will u give u treatment on how to get longer hair faster!!!



How do i grown my hair quciker?

What you need is plenty of natural fertiliser,pop down to your local farm and ask the farmer for a bag of slurry .Apply the slurry regulaly every morning,dont apply in the night as you wont sleep with the smell.Your hair will go green but dont worry the growth will be amazing.It works like wonder on my vegetables



How do i grown my hair quciker?

Vitamin E and trimming it about every 6 to 8 months



How do i grown my hair quciker?

Cow manure works a treat. Fot it to work at its best you should leave it on for work!!



How do i grown my hair quciker?

They might have some tablets down holland and baretts but hair usually grows about 1cm eacch month



How do i grown my hair quciker?

http://www.fasterhairgrowth.com/



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Money Saving tips on Afro American Hair Styling?

Im going to be in a wedding in a couple of weeks and I wanted some advice on what would be a cheaper choice for getting my hair done professionally. Cutting it in particular, I figured I could just relax it at home since thats what I have been doing for the past 5-6yrs. What I really want to know is if I relax my hair at home, should I have my hair cut befor or after I relax ? OR should I just scroung up the money and have the hair dresser cut, perm, and press my hair all on the morning of the wedding? If so, about how much will this cost me?



Money Saving tips on Afro American Hair Styling?

As far as when to relax your hair you want to do it before the cut.



I would not normally suggest it but if you are having it colored or styled later you do not want to style it before you relax it.



Also by relaxing it first your scalp will have settled down and not be so sensitive when you have your style done.



Again I would not usually advice this but it has to do with the order of events and not committing to too many treatments in one day.



There is no way it will be affordable if you have all the treatments done at once.



I would call the salon and ask what they charge for a relax, cut and style.



They may offer a slight discount or include a cut and style with the relaxer so ask them first.



If is say $100 dollars for all three treatments and $80 for two it might be worth it to let the salon do the whole job.



You know how your hair responds to relaxing as you have had it done before.



I am not sure I would wait to the last minute in case you are not happy with the results.



Get it done now or at least do you relaxer now and the stylist can press it or blow dry it to give you the texture and style you need to look marvelous at the wedding.



Money Saving tips on Afro American Hair Styling?

u should cut it after u relax it



Money Saving tips on Afro American Hair Styling?

You should cut it after you perm it. One question though, why would you need to press your hair after you've relaxed it? You're just begging for damage that way. You should be able to get a perm, cut and style for about $100.



Money Saving tips on Afro American Hair Styling?

relax it yourself save some money..........then go and get it cut



Money Saving tips on Afro American Hair Styling?

Continue to do your hair yourself, do you really want to cut your hair for a wedding? The maintenance after that will be consistent and expensive.